He dumped me unexpectedly.. we agreed to be just friends.. but its not working 4 me?

Well.. If someone LOVES you, they don't dump you. You guys are young and you'll find thousands of guys before you die. Don't let someone use you like that. The whole "I just can't handle a relationship right now" is the oldest excuse in the book, sweetie. Show him and everyone else that you're better than that.