What is my problem??? Guys help [Girls too;)]?

Ok so I am 18 years old and I just graduated, im about to start working, I am still a virgin, I am not ugly...i dont think [ http://www.facebook.com/mobileprotection#!/profile.php?id=100001447069329 thats me] , I got my whole life ahead of me and the only thing is I want a boyfriend, but I always get with losers like no car, no job, lazy as i'll get out, wants me for one thing and if i dont give it they dump me, its just a whole list of things...Im not shy, im outgoing and im into almost everything and no take me wrong, my boyfriends are hot but not worth shooting. And Ive looked and looked everywhere and I just dont understand if its me or them? And what can I do about this??? I meet people all the time and I start liking them but they dont feel the same... idk just please help [btw...dont add me]