Friday, August 5, 2011
Do I offer too much sex?
Well, 5x a day every day for about a year will wear anyone out. And doing anything 5x a day, no matter how good it is initially, will start to become boring and routine and far too easy to get. First of all, you need to keep him guessing sometimes and secondly, you don't honestly expect him to keep that pace up forever, do you? After a while he may either become bored, or start to feel like that's all you want out of him. I agree with some of the other responders who suggested that you should take a little break. It doesn't have to be a "game" but just spend a week or so without sex so that you can reconnect with each other and each other's needs. There is more to a relationship than sex, spend some time being intimate *without* sex. Cook dinner together, lie in bed with him and snuggle (w/o having it lead to sex). Do little sweet things for him. Kiss him for no reason at all. Do all of these things and make him feel wanted again. Not wanted just for sex, but wanted for who he is. See if that helps.
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